Walking in Obedience and Trusting God’s Plan
Obedience is very hard
Hi friend,
This week has been a humbling one for me. I’ve been sitting with the word obedience and what it truly looks like to walk in step with God—not just in the big, bold decisions, but in the small, daily ones that no one else sees.
If I’m being honest, I’ve been asking God a lot of why questions lately. Why this season? Why the waiting? Why does obedience sometimes feel so hard? But as I sat with Jeremiah 29:11, I was reminded of something so powerful:
"For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord, “plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."
That verse hit differently this week. It reminded me that God’s plans for my life are not random or chaotic—they are intentional, good, and full of hope. Even when I can’t see the full picture, God already has it figured out. My job isn’t to know the details; it’s to trust Him and obey.
Obedience is rarely convenient, though. It means surrendering my need for control and saying, “Lord, I trust You, even when I don’t understand.” This past week, I’ve felt God nudging me to revisit goals I’d quietly given up on and to pause on things I was trying to rush. It’s not always what I want to hear, but obedience means trusting that His way is better.
Here’s what I’m learning about obedience right now:
It’s a daily decision: Obedience doesn’t happen in one grand moment; it’s built in the little decisions to listen to God’s voice each day.
It stretches your faith: Often, obedience means stepping into the unknown. That’s where faith grows, even when it’s uncomfortable.
It leads to peace: When I align with God’s plan, I find a peace that reminds me I’m exactly where I need to be, even if it doesn’t all make sense yet.
What’s helping me stay grounded this week:
Starting my day with surrender: I’ve been asking God to guide my day, open doors that align with His will, and close the ones that aren’t for me.
Meditating on Jeremiah 29:11: This verse has been a constant reminder that God knows what He’s doing, even when I don’t.
Writing down what I’m grateful for: Gratitude keeps me focused on what God is doing rather than what I think He’s not.
How About You?
Is there an area where God is asking you to trust Him and obey? Maybe it’s something you’ve been avoiding, or maybe it’s a new direction you’re scared to step into. I want to encourage you to lean into His promises, especially Jeremiah 29:11. He knows the plans He has for you—they’re good, even if the journey feels uncertain right now.
As I go into this new week, I’m praying for courage to keep trusting Him and walking in obedience, step by step. I hope you’ll join me in doing the same. And if there’s a specific area where you need prayer, let me know—I’d love to stand with you.
I created a new Spotify playlist called Quiet Time Companion. I hope this playlist helps you stay longer in the presence of Abba.
Here are the remaining prompts for your January Daily writing to God.
Week 3: Relationships
Day 15: Reflect on Proverbs 27:17. Who are the people who sharpen your faith? Write a prayer of gratitude for them.
Day 16: Write a letter to your future spouse, asking God to prepare both of your hearts for His perfect timing.
Day 17: Identify any relationships in your life that need healing or reconciliation. Write down steps you can take this month to address them.
Day 18: Reflect on 1 Corinthians 13:4-7. How can you demonstrate Christ-like love to your family and close friends this year?
Day 19: Write a prayer for contentment in your current season of singleness or marriage.
Day 20: Reflect on your boundaries in relationships. Are there any that need adjustment? Write about how you’ll set healthier limits.
Day 21: Write about friendships that bring you joy. Pray for God to bless these relationships and help them grow.
Week 4: Physical & Mental Wellness
Day 22: Reflect on 1 Corinthians 6:19-20. How can you honor God with your body and physical health?
Day 23: Write down your physical health goals for 2025 (exercise, rest, nutrition). Ask God for wisdom and strength to meet these goals.
Day 24: Reflect on how stress has affected your life. Write about habits you can build to maintain peace (refer to Psalm 23).
Day 25: Write a prayer to overcome anxiety or worry. Meditate on Philippians 4:6-7 for guidance.
Day 26: List three small, practical ways you can take better care of your body this week (hydration, sleep, movement).
Day 27: Spend some time outdoors today. Journal about how nature reminds you of God’s creativity and power.
Day 28: Write down negative thoughts you’ve been struggling with. Replace each thought with a Bible verse of truth.
Week 5: Finances & Work
Day 29: Reflect on Proverbs 3:9-10. Write a prayer committing your finances to God and trusting Him to provide.
Day 30: Identify your financial priorities for 2025 (saving, tithing, giving). Write an action plan to steward your money wisely.
Day 31: Write about your career or business goals and surrender them to God. Reflect on Colossians 3:23 as you plan.
P.S. Obedience isn’t always easy, but it’s always worth it. Reply to this email and let me know where God is leading you. I’d love to hear your story.
Talk soon,
Your friend in Christ. Bolaji
I was just reading Proverbs 3 and the beginning was talking about trusting in God with all your heart and leaning not on your understanding which can seem difficult to do now that I can think of it and I just remembered that you posted a new write-up. I was like “let me check it cause I think Bolaji wrote on obedience” and lo and behold, it was on Obedience.
Thank you so much for explaining it like this. I really learnt a lot.